Tuesday, March 8, 2011

A long overdue update

As most of you know, we are now a family of 4!! It's still so crazy sometimes to think I am a wife and also a mother of 2!! And here's just a brief summary of the birth:

Went in for a 7AM induction. Got put into a room without a computer so had to be moved, got my IV set up and Pitocin at 9. Epidural shortly there after. Water was broken at 10AM. I asked the nurse and Dr. when they estimated the birth, they both said anywhere from 3-7PM. I told them that I thought I could do better. And I did. I went from 4cm to 10 and ready to push in less than 3 hours. But that sounds too easy, right? Well, those 3 hours were pretty difficult, since he started up so high, he had a long way to go in such a short period of time. And even though I had an epidural, I felt the insane pressure of each contraction. The Dr. came in a little after noon and told me to try to push. After about 5-6 big pushes, Ezra Beckett Nilsen made his grand entrance into the world at 12:52PM! We were all very surprised at his girth, 9lb 3oz!! He was healthy and strong, lifting his head up the first time I held him. Some of you remember the mixed emotions I had about having a boy but God's plans are perfect and He knew exactly what we needed. And I wouldn't trade my boy for anything. He's such a sweet, animated, joyful little thing and my heart is overwhelmed by the love I have for him already.

There have been some adjustments with having two and each day looks different. I'm trying to put Ezra on some type of napping schedule but he doesn't really nap very well. He loves sleeping in his car seat most times but we've gone from him being swaddled and sleeping on his back, to tummy(which included lots of spitting up which resulted in him waking up quite often) and then back to swaddling and on his back. We're trying to not use the paci unless we have to. He spits it out more than it stays in anyway which means a lot of running up and down the stairs but it helps him to relax himself to sleep some of the time. He's been a wonderful sleeper at night the last couple weeks, only waking up once at about 3AM. He has always been and continues to be very easy going(even when he's supposed to be napping, he looks at his ceiling fan or mobile or toys in his crib instead of crying) but will grunt if he needs something :) He's been showing big, toothless smiles since about 5 weeks old. I LOVE going in to get him from his crib and him greeting me with one. It's the best! His 2 month appointment is next week so I'll try to share stats after that.

Some have asked how Audrey's doing with the new family member and she is doing so great! She's been such a huge help with things around the house. She puts her plate in the sink when she's done eating and puts her cup back in the fridge, she can get dressed by herself except for a little help with sleeves and socks, she puts her clothes in the hamper, she'll watch Ezra if I need to run upstairs and get something, etc. She's very independent and plays so well on her own which is very helpful when I need to feed the baby, take a shower, etc. And she's such a joy to be around(most of the time:) She's a typical 2 1/2 year old for sure but she is usually so cheerful, dancing around in her tutu and singing countless sporadic songs but her favorite is The Gospel Song which she knows all the words to. She's a nut and makes me laugh quite often. She has such a compassionate heart and picks up on my mood changes so quickly(yes, I have been known to be moody some days :) and is always concerned if she thinks I'm sad or upset.

With all that being said, we have had A LOT going on these days. Besides the adjustments and busyness that two kids bring, our usual weekly commitments and finding time for friends and family, we've also been working on getting the house ready to sell. Steve's been spending every available moment on the weekends fixing up the outside of the house along with the helps of lots of friends. Our plan is to get it up this weekend, which will be almost exactly one year from when we had it listed before. Spring is almost here, the trees and flowers are blooming and the weather is getting nicer! I know this year is going to fly by so quickly!! I'm so excited to see what our future will hold!! And now, please enjoy the insane amount of pictures :)

New big sister getting her first look at her baby brother

She was so excited to show him her little umbrella :)

Audrey leaning in to kiss his head

Broke out of the swaddle already

Cozy

Steve wishes he was the patient but is glad he didn't have to be the one to give birth :)

E next to his friend Coco who is 3 months older than him! Look how they compare in size!

This picture is so dear to me. I took it the last night we stayed at the hospital at about 2 in the morning right before I fed him. He looked so sweet and peaceful in the glow of the light.

Bundled and ready to go!

Getting ready to go home!!

Just after arriving home from the hospital.

Look at those cheeks!!

3 days old

3 generations of Nilsen men

First sponge bath

One of the very few Newborn outfits that fit him


Love from Sister

Such a proud big sister

Resting in the doll crib

Red broken blood vessels in both eyes, took over a month for them to disappear

The famous Derelict

Daddy takes a turn at feeding

Mohawk

Big sister takes a turn at feeding

Oh to be this cozy

One of my all time favorites



~LOVE~


Less than 2 weeks old and sleeping like a big boy


Sleeping in Audrey's doll sleeping bag

Little Moose

Our precious gift


10 days old, deep in thought

Streeeeeeeeeetch

Ready for my close up

So cute in the swaddle

First walk together, Valentine's Day

Snuggling with Daddy in his big boy jammies(3-6m) I think he was 4 weeks here!

First real bath


Holding onto his paci while he sleeps

Smiles at big sister

Big smiles from the big guy

First bath together

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Update soon...



I'm not gonna lie, I've been entirely not feeling bloggish lately but for the sake of memories I will be updating soon. I think. Here's a few recent pictures to hold you over until then.

Our little ballerina started ballet classes last Wednesday. She's found her niche!

Audrey and Greta having snacks at the park

His toes are just the cutest

Funny little sleep mouth

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Ezra Beckett Nilsen

We welcomed our baby boy Ezra Beckett Nilsen into the world this Thursday, January 13th at 12:52 PM!!! He weighed 9lb 3 oz. and is 20 1/2 inches long. Details and an update soon!!! I gotta go kiss those chubby cheeks!

Monday, January 3, 2011

Almosts

As the year has ended and a new one has begun, it's made me anticipate all that this year will hold. And that makes me SO EXCITED! So, I decided to make a list of all the things that we are expecting and I'm gonna call it my "almosts" list:

1. It's almost our little boy's birthday!!! Due date is January 8th but we're ready for you anytime buddy!

2. We almost have a 3 year old. Yikes. This scares me and makes me sad and happy all at the same time. Audrey will be 3 the end of April but sometimes I think she's 2 going on 10 :)

3. We're almost ready to put our house up for sale again. As most of you know, we had it up for sale from March-August 2010 and we had 2 showings. We have prayed for months and feel led to go on the Sovereign Grace church plant in Summerville, SC. We're hoping to have the house ready to be put up for sale again in the next few weeks.

4. I'm almost 30!!! AWWWWWWWWWWWWW! How did the time go by so quickly? Some days I swear that I'm not a day over 23 :) My birthday is January 20th and we're trying desperately to find something fun to do while trying to stay realistic in knowing that a 2 week old may be in tow with us whatever we end up doing. Shoot us some ideas if you have any!

5. We're almost a family of 4! This is pretty much the same as #1 just worded differently :) Going from 3 to 4 doesn't seem like it would be that big of a change but I know that it will. Even though I know I will love little Ezra so so much, I will always have a special place in my heart for my first born. These last few weeks have been so special with Audrey and I know that my time will now have to be divided which will be challenging at times. But I cherish the time I have with her and I know without a doubt she's going to be the best big sister ever! The compassion and care she shows to her dolls, her friends and our family is so sweet to see and she's growing up to be such a little lady. I'm so glad I'll have live-in help :)

Those are the biggies for now. There's something refreshing about starting a new year and feeling as though you can have a new beginning and much to anticipate. 2010 was so packed full of fun and memories but I know that 2011 will definitely top it by far! I am so excited to see what the Lord has up His sleeve!! Happy New Year everyone!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Our boy's room: simple and sweet

Several people have told me the second time around having a baby is much different than the first and it has been in so many ways. I feel like the time has gone so much faster because we've been busy with the little one we already have. And it's been helpful to be pregnant through the holidays which makes the time go extra fast. With that being said, the prep for Ezra's room has been totally different than when we did Audrey's room. I think hers was complete months before her birth. E's on the other hand was just finished yesterday, 3ish weeks before his arrival.
His room used to be our guest room. We very rarely had guests so we sold our queen guest bed to friends of ours. It had also become a holding zone for a lot of garage sale items up until a few months ago. Storage is limited in our house, to say the least, so the closet is the home for all of our Christmas decor, board games, Steve's suit jackets and my wedding dress. So we had to strategically shove all of Ezra's clothes and supplies in there as well. We just have to be careful not to sneeze or else it may all come tumbling out :) But I am pleased with the room. I was going for neutral and clean with having to buy as little as possible. Almost everything except for the shelf above the crib, his name, mobile, bedding and toy box was Audrey's. I hope he likes it!!

Under the crib is a metal bucket holding his toys and his sock dog by Jessica and little wagon from Nat. The yellow duck stuck in the corner is a humidifier. I definitely don't love the rug but we used to have it in the playroom and it "worked" in this room and allowed us not to have to buy another one.

Feeding corner

E hook with his ready-to-wear winter coat from Tiffy. I picked up the little blue stool that opens for storage at a yard sale this Fall. Little wagon from Nat.

View from the glider

His big boy toy box and baseball from Gramma and a homemade sock mockey with tie from our friend Crystal.

Poop station

I think he's well stocked for awhile, what do you think?

Audrey has a pink storage thingy just like this one and we love it so I had to get one for the boy too. It's great because it can hold stuff you just don't have room for and it all hides conveniently behind the door! Also hanging from the doorknob is the sweet diaper bag Steve scored at the Goodwill, retails for around $80 and we got it for $6!!